Are You Lovers or Just Friends?

You two are best of buddies. You share every emotional tinge of your feelings with him/her - laughter, tears, anger, humor, happiness, sorrows. In every possible way, you share a much comfortable and candid relationship with your friend. With time, friendship grows freely and fully. With every single moment, your relationship deepens and feelings take a new turn. Over a period of time, you tend to ask yourself - is it just friendship or something beyond? You tend to develop feelings beyond friendship. Maybe you'll end up together. But this is what you feel. You are still unaware of your friend's feelings. You want to express your deepest feelings but at the same time you're scared of losing your long-harvested friendship. What if s/he retracts? Are you confused? Not yet ready to take the bold step? Think again about your feelings. Ask yourself the following questions.

1. Is your friend constantly in your mind throughout the day and night?
2. Do you wish to see him/her every single minute?
3. Is s/he the first person you want to share your thoughts whenever you're happy or sad?
4. Does his/her thought remind you of all the good things around you?
5. Do you dream of spending your life with that person?
6. Do you enjoy his/her company the most?
7. What do you feel when you see him/her with another companion? You go green with jealousy?
8. What if that person chooses a different companion to stay with forever? Can you live with it?
9. Do you feel on top of seventh heaven when s/he gives you utmost importance among other friends around?
10. Can you imagine life without him/her?

Ask your heart for the answers. Remember, your heart will never disappoint you. Now go ahead woth your heart. Take that bold step once and for all. Friendship or love, life is beautiful both ways!